Max liked to playfully hit people these day, which was definitely something I don't like at all. Even thought I continuously told him that do not treat other the way he doesn't like to be treated, I don't think he fully understand what that mean.
so the other day, I told him that it's bad karma he creates if he continuously hit others. It will come back to him one way or the other whether he likes it or not.
It’s funnythat I often heard from friend that how their other half likes to fix ‘the relationship’ and how it was not working out for them. I had to admit that I am one of those fixer. Well, why not. We were taught while growing up that we should always try to fix things that are broken. So we learn to fix our toy, toilet bowl, computer and into relationship. We were all so well-trained that we seriously believe that everything is ‘fixable’.
I have lots of rules around the house. Well, I don't really think I have that many, but my children obviously don't think so.
Like all the computer programing, my rules are simple. They often contain 'if' and 'then" like; if you finish your homework, then you can play. If you finish your food, then you can pick a sweet. If you want me to listen, then speak with the tone that people will listen...
I grow up believing this is something that everyone knew, but recently realized that it seemed to be a completely news to most western friends of mine. Well, that will include those Asians who were born here.
It all started with a day trip to Granville Island with Friend and her family one day. When I was browsing around the market and noticed fresh papaya, I told my friend's daughter who stood next to me and said "You should eat more papaya now. It will help your breast develope. I know you probably don't want that now, but you will definitely thank me when you are older." Sure enough, it became a joke after they went home. Later that night, when I ran into their family again in the park, my friend's husband looked at me with grimace and said "I've never heard that eating Papaya will help your breast develop."
My biggest satisfaction came from those who is willing to trust my theory, applied it into their life , then figure out their own understanding and eventually evolve from wherever they were stuck. I know it might sound silly to some of you; but everytime I read any blog follower posted some comments sharing their personal experience which showed that they truly got what I was trying to say, I always felt this energy of excitement burst under my chest.
I am not sure what really satisfy me when I am reading a post like that. But I do know that I am so glad that someone finally understand what I was trying to say, and what kind of world I was trying to present - where everyone is strong, and everyone believe in who they are and what they do, then we will be able to create an strong connection that no one could defeat.
You will probably hear lot of ‘spiritual people’ talking about ‘the sign’. Well, I also know many of you will interpretate those who read the sign as someone who read into things too much. Well, they might be or they might not. But if you ever figure out how the sign is presented to you, you will eventually understand reading the sign doesn’t mean people reading into things too much. It could just mean they saw it when their spirit guide is trying to communicate with them. Because ‘signs’ is definitely a way your spiritual guide communicate to you.
I've never thought about this, but it was funny to hear from a friend that most of Westerner interpretate Psychic as mind reader. They would expect me to read their mind and tell them what they already know in order to judge how good I am.
I guess this must be a task that I needed to work on.
Recently, I realized that Arabella had develope the skill of reading (sensing) minds. It seems like she was able to know just exactly what I was thinking when I intentionally trying to block it from her. It all started with some joke, having her guess what I wanted to eat or drink. But somehow, she is getting better and better. Sometimes, she seemed to react to my thought without me saying a word of anything. so I am observing whether she is like that to me only, or she had develope the skill in general? As I said... Still observing.
I have been quite amazed by human anatomy these days. especially the whole function of the ears!
I am sure all of you know that the reason people could hear "the sound' is because the vibration reach to your ear drum, it then send the signal into your brain and then 'sound' would be created.
this is the most weird question that I often heard from people that how come I only update my status in Chinese or how come I don't update my English blog often?
Gee! isn't it obvious? Because, I am CHINESE! of course I will update Chinese way more often than English!
Friend's daughter asked quite a interesting question the other day.
She asked her mother "Mom, do you dream with your right brain or left brain?". Not that she could tell the difference between dreaming with right brain or left brain, so I asked "Do you know the difference between dreaming with our right brain, or dreaming with your left brain?"
most of people are often afraid to know anything spiritual world.
Mostly because we do not know how to handle anything that is not tangible, or rather said that we were very brainwashed by Hollywood telling us how scary ghost are or devil could do to harm our life.