Ruowen Huang

Lot of people will change themselves for their other half,

but you probably don't know this;

if you are able to be truth to yourself, express yourself and simply be yourself,

Then, 'you' will have every advantage you need in order to attract 'soulmate'

But the truth is...

We are always trying to be someone else, we care too much how others project us,

and whether we are doing thing good or bad, right or wrong,

eventually,

We've lost every qualities to attract that 'soulmate',

and wasting plenty of time stuck with someone that was not even compatible with us.

And then, when we start to be with this 'incompatible mate',

we often change who we are for them, over and over again.

In the end, not only we do not live who we are any more,

it often make that 'other half' whom we devoted ourselves so much to make all the changes for, disliked us or even hate us.

That's why there are lot of relationship end badly.

很多人常常會為了自已的另一半而改變自已，

但是，你們大概不知道，

如果你們能夠學會真真誠誠地面對自已，表達自已，做好自已。

那你們的身上，就已經擁有吸引那個“靈魂伴侶”的所有優先條件了。

只不過，我們總是太急著當別人，太在乎別人怎麼看我們，

太在意自已做得好不好，對不對，

搞到最後，

我們吸引那個靈魂伴侶的所有條件全都沒有了，

才會反而浪費更多的時間吸引來一起不適合我們的伴侶。

等到我們跟不適合的伴侶在一起之後，我們又老是為了附合而改變 ，

於是，一變再變，變了又變，變到最後，

不旦自已變得不再喜歡自已，就連那個不適合的伴侶都變得討厭我們了。

所以，很多的關係都因為這樣而變得不了了之。

I have been always curious to find out how soulmate attract each other,

it was only recently I discover that every single one of you are actually custom made for that special someone.

(Yes, no matter how big, how small, how tall, how short, or whatever color of your skin is...

you are who you are, because you are everything your soulmate is looking for)

The element to attract 'soulmate' is often not a certain look, but a feeling when people get from you .

If you've ever paid attention to your other half,

You should realized that other than 'his look', what really attract you must be the quality he carries that you couldn't find it on anyone else.

It could be a smile, or a certain motion, it could be your personality, and habit, or your special characteristics.

Anyway, what I was trying to say was that,

that someone has to be 'you', so your soulmate would be able to find 'you'.



我其實從以前就有某種程度上的理論出現，

很想知道所謂的靈魂伴侶究竟是以什麼條件來吸引，以及尋找對方的。

不過，也因為這樣，反而讓我回頭去觀察是不是每個人都是這麼帶著元素下來找他們的靈魂伴侶的！

他們帶的是什麼元素，又是以什麼條件來吸引另一半的，

這才驚訝地發現，你們真的每一個人都是為了那個特別的人所量身訂作的。

它們其實大多不是一個特定的長相，而是一種感覺。

仔細注意看看，你的另一半吸引你的條件，除了他的長相之外， 鐵定也是那種感覺。

那種感覺很可能是一種微笑，很可能是你特有的動作，很可能是你的個性，很可能是一種習慣，也很可能是你特有的人格。

總之，因為那個人非得要是“你”，那個命中注定的人才有辦去找到“你“

This pattern is actually same as all animal looking for their  other half.

All life will release some special scent, sound, motion in order to attract the compatible mate,

and the suitable mate will be attracted by certain way in order to know where their mate will be.

Human, functioned just like everything else in the universe,

but we were so used to be confused by the standards surrounding us,

eventually, our instinct got clouded and we no longer could make the 'right' decision any more.

Further more, most of people forgot how to be themselves,

and that would only make it harder to find the right one to suit you.

這個感覺，其實跟動物用本能尋找另一半的方式很像，

動物之間會散發出一種吸引對方的激素靠近， 專屬另一半可以感應到的味道來吸引另一半，其實， 人類也是這樣在運作的。

只是，我們慣性讓世俗的標準來左右我們的判斷力，

反而混亂了自已的本能與直覺罷了。

再者，太多人連自已都忘了怎麼當了，自然無法尋找到最適合自已的另一半。

Human, is like a big category of many individual species.

If you want to find your soulmate fast and not wasting any time searching,

the best way is to learn how to be yourself,

once you fully learn everything about yourself, your sensation will become sensitive, your instinct will be sharp,

those qualities will eventually help you find the most compatible mate in no time.

人類，像是一種分類細微的特有族群，

想要不浪費時間與力氣，又可以很快地找到屬於自已的另一半。

其實，最快的方法就是要懂得怎麼當“你自已“

一旦你學會如何當自已，你的感官會變得敏感， 直覺會變得敏銳，

更能讓你不費時地找到最適合你的另一半。

So, believe me; no matter what you look like,

Beautiful eyes, full lips, full bust, cute butt or a pair of pretty legs, or none of above

You 'absolutely' have everything you need to attract that someone who will make your life full and complete.

So, Instead of changing yourself into someone you may not like,

and suppressed yourself in order to cooperate others,

Why don't you save all that energy and learn to 'love yourself just the way you are'?

Because, that truth is...

You are not that stupid at all!

Before you were born into human, you already knew everything your soulmate will like,

in order to attract him/her, you had already carried all those qualities together with you.

Appreciate yourself, love yourself, you will then enhanced all those qualities in you,

and attract that soulmate to approached your when the time is right!

所以，相信我，不管你長得怎麼樣，

有沒有大眼，小嘴，一百七， 豐胸，細腰，俏臀，還是一雙美美修長的腿，

你絕對擁有每一個足以吸引你的靈魂伴侶靠近你的條件在。

所以，與其把自已改造成一個很可能連自已都不喜歡的人，

努力地配合他人而壓抑自已，

倒不如好好地學會“喜歡自已“吧。

因為，你真的沒有那麼笨， 你早在投胎以前， 就已經知道你的另一半會喜歡你身上的那一點，

為了確保他真的找得到你，你早就全都把它們全都帶下來投胎了啦！

欣賞自已，喜歡自已，你就更能夠突顯出“你”的特點，

來吸引最適合你的人朝你的方向靠近喔。